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Watkinsville, Georgia, United States
We lost my beautiful wife of 20 years on 9/12/07. Lisa was my world she was my everything and now she is gone. We are learning to live without Lisa now. I say we because I am not alone. My children are stuck in this mess with me. These are my notes, my vent, my way of letting you all know that we are doing well (some days). This is for myself, my friends and my family that want to know how we are doing and what we are up to. Along the way I hope this might also help someone else who has been dealt a similar hand.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Senior Board

This was a big weekend for Matt and his 4-H involvement. He has served as a member of the Senior Northeast Georgia 4-H board of directors over the past year. He was elected to this position by popular vote among his peers at this time last year. This weekend he relinquished his position at a camp wide assembly. This camp wide assembly is a loud media filled event that involves the hundreds of members within the Northeast district that are involved in 4-H. It’s also, as you can see from the picture, a rather formal affair.

During this assembly new board of directors are announced and introduced. Additionally the eight or so current board members are spotlighted in a video presentation with a voice over of the member thanking various people for their help and encouragement over the past year. As each of the current board members video portion comes onto the large screen they can be heard thanking various 4-H officials, friends, co-board members and usually last but not least their parents. As each of them thanks their parents they mention both their mother and father. I listened intently over the roar of hundreds of young people and the background music and wondered how Matt would address the crowd. I wondered what he was thinking when he recorded his portion and wondered if he were thinking about his mother.

Finally it was time for Matt’s video spotlight and onto the huge screen popped one of the baby pictures that I had supplied and Matt’s name in big red letters. We had been asked to supply a number of pictures for this video presentation and I had sent the cutest baby and toddler pictures that I could find. The crowd of children ( the majority of them girls) screamed and clapped as Matt’s picture came onto the screen. Then as the background music faded, I heard Matt’s voice come onto the sound system. I braced myself hoping that he had found a way to express himself and thank his friends and family. The first person he thanked was mom. He simply said, without a quiver in his voice, “Thanks Mom, I know you would be proud”… he went on to thank me and many others but I didn’t hear the rest of it. All I heard was a young man that found courage and the words he needed to confront yet another event that Mom was not here for.

He didn’t even miss a beat and he mentioned Mom and Dad first not last as some had done. His voice didn’t shake and you could tell he was in command of his emotions. The voice over was heartfelt and sincere. I, myself was in such a daze that I would not have known he had finished the voice over had it not been for the crowd of kids cheering and clapping at the end of it.

Yes son, you are right, she was and still would be very, very proud. Just as I am…

1 comment:

  1. daddy i cried, it caught me off guard when he said it!!